I asked you to tell me what you needed help with. I can start by saying I am sending a BIG hug your way. There were a few common themes and my heart felt sad thinking of you struggling to get into the holiday spirit. (coming from the Grinch who feels accomplished that she even has a tree up- despite it not being the least bit decorated.) Truth be told there were many years I skipped the decorating altogether- it felt like a hassle. The fun part of that was I didn't have to answer to ANYONE about it.